MY 2023 HOLIDAY GIFT WISHLIST

I stopped doing traditional gift guides a few years back – I just felt like I was adding noise to an already very crowded space – but I’ve been doing these (very much just for fun) personal holiday wishlist posts for the past 4 years and like the little tradition of them. As ever, I don’t need a single thing this holiday season. We had a big year and I’m looking forward to a cozy and fairly quiet holiday season. But in case I want to treat myself to a little year end gift, or if anyone our there is looking for a hint.. here’s what I wouldn’t hate finding under my tree.

P.S. Here are my lists from 2022, 2021 and 2020. These feel fun to look back on!

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  1. Pajama Set: I’m a long sleeves + shorts pajama set kind of girl, which can be tricky to find. While these are technically a holiday print, I think they definitely could be worn all winter and the print reminds me a bit of the fabrics I saw when visiting Petit Trianon last spring (Marie Antoinette’s famed getaway from the main palaces at Versailles).
  2. Croissant Ring: My Mom has had a “croissant ring” since I was little and I’ve always admired it. She surprised me with it as my “something borrowed” for my wedding/honeymoon and I took it to Paris. I’ve since returned it to her but would love my own to cherish.
  3. Clean Lipstick: After trying several new Merit Beauty products this fall I’m officially a devotee. I want to try their lipstick next in this orange-y red.
  4. Patent Mary Janes: From what is quickly becoming one of my favorite shoe brands – these patent leather mary-janes would go with so many things in my closet. They’ve sold-out multiple times so I’m currently on a waitlist, but when I can I’ll probably grab them. If you want to try the brand for yourself, code: thesteelemaiden15 gets you 15% off.
  5. Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy Book: I’ve been enthralled with the Kennedy family since I was about 13 years old and read plenty of biographies, but – aside from admiring her personal style – have never delved too much into Carolyn Bessette. This coffee table book with focus on her life through fashion feels like the perfect place to start.
  6. Crystal Hoops: I’m always on the lookout for earrings that can be dressed up or down and I love the look of these chubby little hoops with assorted crystals – they’re a steal too!
  7. Paris Mug: I started collecting these holiday travel mugs from Anthropologie a few years ago and wanted to pick up this Paris one this year to remind me of our honeymoon – when lo and behold, a dear old friend surprised me with it in the mail! Christmas serendipity!
  8. Depuffing Mask: I have heard multiple internet beauty gurus declare their love for this depuffing mask from Clairins and I’m feeling compelled to try for days when we might take photos or for the occasional late nights that are followed by early mornings.
  9. Bucket Bag: I’ve long admired Mansur Gavriel’s “quiet luxury” take on handbags and these mini bucket bags feel especially timeless to me. The olive green is on sale and feels like it would match with lots in my winter wardrobe.
  10. Mixed Plaid Vest: I’m really trying to save my pennies lately and resist most new fashion purchases, but if I do splurge on one item for myself before the end of the year it will likely be this mixed plaid vest which I think I’d end up wearing a million ways.
  11. Just Married Ornament: I admittedly already bought this for Adam as a stocking stuffer, but then it arrived and I couldn’t wait – so I gave it to him tonight so it could be the first ornament on our tree this year! Would make a cute gift for a fellow newlywed in your life.
  12. Ritz Paris Baseball Cap: This hat is sort of a splurge as far as baseball caps go, but doesn’t it just scream Princess Diana with an oversized sweatshirt and sneakers running errands on the weekends? So chic. Plus the Ritz holds a pretty special place in my heart after visiting Bar Hemingway there on our past two trips to Paris.
  13. Metal Rim Prescription Sunglasses: This will seem painfully obvious to glasses-wearers but I got a pair of prescription sunglasses a few years ago and they changed my life. I’m never outside without them – which is why you seen them in.. all of my photos. I can’t see distance without them. I’d love to get another pair to add to the rotation this year.
  14. Cream Eyeshadow Crayons: These look fun for adding a little color and shine to eyes. Am I becoming a make-up girly now? I don’t know. But these seem impossible to mess up.
  15. Carry-On Duffel: I desperately need a new overnight duffel bag/carry-on personal item. This sizing looks just right and I had a back-up from this brand that I wore to shreds over the course of about 6 years, so I know the quality will last.

MOTHER’S DAY GIFT GUIDE

The Steele Maiden: Gift GuideAs a friendly little reminder – Mother’s Day is May 10. And while flowers are always appreciated – what about a batch of homemade cookies in this sweet cake stand? Or a rose gold ring with her favorite number (or the number of kids!). Fail safe winners also include a deliciously scented candle, carry everywhere tote bag, and pretty printed scarf.

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best of cyber monday sales

After a lovely, long weekend it’s back to reality today. Well, almost. If you skipped the crowds and spent the weekend relaxing then you should definitely be using today to make the most of Cyber Monday mania. I’ve shared lots of ideas from my Gift Guides (NYC, Austin, Los Angeles, London and Paris), and if you still need help thinking of the perfect gift – give me a shot on Twitter or Instagram and I’ll be happy to help! 



Ann Taylor – 50% entire purchase with code CYBER50
What to get: This shiny party skirt and faux fur earmuffs

ASOS – 30% off sitewide with code ILOVEMONDAYS
What to get: This oversize cardigan and shearling lined boots for him

C.Wonder – 40% off sitewide

What to get: A mixed print teapot, velvet travel set, and a cute dog leash 

Forever 21 – 20% off orders of $60+ with code CYBER20
What to get: A faux fur hooded coat, stocking stuffers like this cosmetic bag


GiGi New York – The more you spend, the more you save – up to 30% off
What to get: This neutral bucket bag, tassel keychain and personalized bag tag  
J.Crew – 30% off select full price, extra 40% off sale + free shipping through 11/30 with codeHOLIDAY
What to get: Winter-weather ready boots, a sweet lacy bralette, and standout skirt

J.Crew Factory – 50% off sitewide + free shipping through 11/30 with code THANKS
What to get: Festive flats and deeply discounted cashmere sweaters

Kate Spade – 30% off sitewide with code CYBER30
What to get: The ‘it’ bag of the season and this witty iPad cover

Loren Hope – 20% off sitewide + free shipping with code THANKFULLY
What to get: This crystal bow tie necklace and stackable cuffs


LOFT – 50% off sitewide with code MONDAY
What to get: These plaid pants and metallic pouch

Lulu Frost – 25% off sitewide + free shipping with code LULU25
What to get: This cocktail ring and knockout statement necklace

Missguided – 30% off sitewide with code CYBER30
What to get: A cozy cocoon coat and new year’s eve romper 

Piperlime – 30% off sitewide + extra 40% off sale with code CYBERSALE
What to get: This shearling moto jacket and golden heels

Ruche – 30% off sitewide
What to get: A lace detail satchel, fisheye iPhone lense and ladylike coat

Sole Society – 30% off sitewide
What to get: This red wide brim hat and must have leopard booties

Talbots – 50% one item, and 40% off entire purchase
What to get: This plaid passport cover and puffer vest



holiday gift guide: paris

The Steele Maiden: Holiday Gift Guide - Paris StyleAfter stops in NYC, Austin, Los Angeles and London – we’ve finally made it to the final destination of my city-themed Holiday gift guides – Paris! A city both classic and refined, yet wildly rich and romantic there’s nowhere quite like the City of Light.  Undoubtedly you have someone on your shopping list that has that certain ‘je ne sais quoi’ – so for your favorite hostess (and ultra-luxe candle and leopard matches), for your best friend who dreams of that left bank girl cool (a book on how to nail Parisienne perfectly), your Dad who mixes a mean French 75 (a marble and gold deco bar set), and for yourself (an end of year splurge – over the knee suede boots that will make every outfit infinitely more chic).p.s. So many of the items featured here (and in my other 4 Holiday Gift Guides) are on sale through Cyber Monday – so to make it easy you can shop them ALL here!



holiday gift guide: london

The Steele Maiden: Holiday Gift Guide - London Style
Arguably my second favorite city in the world, London, is our 4th stop on this worldwide gift guide tour.  With previous stops in New York, Austin, and Los Angeles.. London has a decidedly different vibe. A city steeped in tradition yet relentlessly forward, if you’ve got a friend with the same irreverent, creative and witty spirit as London then this gift guide is for you. For your husband with bespoke tendencies (a classic pair of brogues), for your Anglophile Aunt (a sleek tea kettle and Beatles-lyric clad mug set), and for your fashion forward co-worker ( an added edge by way of these gunmetal cuff bracelets). Happy Shopping!